The Bittersweet Facet of Marriage - By: EmersonRoss

Lovers do fall in love and they go the circle of love- to be happy, to be sad, to regret, to reconcile, to forgive and forget, to cherish or to endure. Love for its main thing is not a bed of roses as many people say, but its both a bed of roses and thorns! There are many couples who used to get married at the end of their girlfriend-boyfriend relationship because they think their love was enough to prove the capacity of building a family of their own. But in the long run, we just normally hear that some married couples got divorced. Why? What could be the possible reasons for such circumstances? So sad to hear but it's the reality and in every reality lies the load of reasons and answers of our questions.

What is marriage then?

Marriage is the union of couple under the law of the land and for its greater meaning, it is the union under the Law of God, Basically, its meaning differs from one person to another, but we could take a more meaningful aspect from a legal viewpoint.
As commonly known, it is a contract made for a man and a woman bound to make an exchanging vows of their promises and everything sweet, meaningful words that would bring a promise of love, care, and security that will endure against the test of time. How nice if all married couples steadfastly follow the promising words of love, but because of so much influence, the concept of marriage is undeniably undergoing so many changes in every person's mind. Currently, the idea of marriage is far more different than the idea the people had way back a decade ago.

Marriage is somewhat one of the sweetest things a couple could ever have. Built with love and care, your ties of a bonded relationship seem to grow into a fruitful and a blissful life. And the good thing about it is that you are able to keep close together with the one you truly love- your better half. It is indeed an immeasurable feeling of excitement when you happen to sleep together, eat together, and making plans together. Though conflict is such an evitable thing in every mode of affection but only when it is deal with respect, all seem to go fine without hurting each other's feelings.

A married life can never be more meaningful if it has no presence of a child. It should go one woman, one man, and a child or children. A child plays an important role in a couple’s life for it one reason on why couples tend to marry.

Marriage, on the other hand, has its negative side. It is for the reason that once you get married, you will never be able to get out from the relationship as easy as you think. It holds a lot of responsibilities, too. Many couples think that they were wrong with the decisions made but because of the vows being committed, they can hardly get out of the relationship.

So I think the way to a successful married life is that every couple should build a foundation with mutual trust, respect, love, commitment and understanding. This should be in a couple's thought in order to protect the marital status and fight against the deterioration of a promised bond.

We should not be get affected of the social crisis which are kept on arising, instead, we should fight over with what we have and prove that we can be a responsible husband to our wife, and a responsible wife to our husband, and in addition, a responsible parents to our child or children.

Emerson Ross

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