Right use of Power: Ethics as Soul Work - By: Cedar Barstow, M.Ed., C.H.T.

Ethics as Soul Work

I slept and dreamt that life was joy;
I awoke and saw that life was service;
I acted and behold, service was joy.
--Rabindranath Tagore

I appreciate your interest in using your personal and professional power with wisdom and compassion. I think of ethics as right use of power. In fact, right use of power and influence is the biggest container for ethics since it includes social consciousness and personal development. In this greatest context, it is about reverence for life, treating all people with respect, and acting honorably. It requires a high level of consciousness development and understanding of both harm and empowerment.

This context for ethics includes and honors the value of prescribed codes and guidelines and goes beyond into the realm of repairing harm, restoring relationships, and promoting well-being. Ethical behavior in this framework requires a high level of consciousness development and understanding of both harm and empowerment.

This is the first of a series of articles devoted to exploring issues of power in our personal and professional lives. Expect a new column every 4-6 weeks.

In working with ethical sensitivity from a soul deep point of view, I think there are a number of things that are asked of us as healers and as human beings.

1. On-going personal and spiritual work

2. An ability to be authentic, and at the same time, be in service to others.

3. The humility to know and take responsibility when we've made a mistake or inadvertently caused harm.

4. A level of transcendence in which we can put our own needs aside in order to be of service.

5. An ability to foster independence even when we're being depended upon for our helpfulness.

6. Thorough knowledge of Self and an ability to use our strengths as resources and minimize the impact of our vulnerabilities.

7. A capacity to be in the presence of suffering and woundedness with compassion, without dissociating, numbing or getting overwhelmed.

8. A call to "make real" our gifts and intentions.

9. A willingness to use power and influence.

Being in service to others can be draining. How can we nourish our own souls when engaged in realms of service to others?

Here are four essential resources to cultivate:

1. Gratitude. Gratitude clears out stress and focuses our attention on the goodness around us.

2. Honoring the grief we feel about the suffering of others. We can do this by taking the grief directly and momentarily into our hearts and then send it on. This allows us to move it through our bodies and souls so we don't have to respond by either getting numb or feeling traumatized.

3. Having a practice of contemplation or prayer. This keeps our hearts and right brain hemispheres open to information beyond our sensory signals. This information comes from the medium that connects us all.

4. Linking power and heart. When the generativity and responsiveness of our power is guided by loving concern for the well-being of all, we will have an ethical and sustainable world.

Pain and suffering, they are a mystery. Kindness and love, they are a mystery. But I have learned that kindness and love can pay for pain and suffering.
--Barbara Kingsolver

About the Author

Cedar Barstow, M.Ed., C.H.T., is a counselor in Boulder who provides respectful and compassionate therapy to individuals. Cedar can be reached for scheduling here: GoodTherapy or Therapist Austin

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