I didn't reach my goals. What now? - By: Andrea Scott

Coaches often stress that it's important to set goals. Now you've followed this advice and set monthly goals. But you're disappointed because you didn't reach last month's goals. What do you do now? Do you give up? No, seize this opportunity to evaluate the goals and the strategies used.

First, are you really motivated to reach this goal? How motivated were you to achieve it? People are often more motivated to avoid pain rather than gain pleasure.

Take the time to ask yourself some honest questions. What situation do you want to change? How much pain are you in? How badly do you want avoid the pain that you experience? How fed up are you?

Once you've established that you are highly motivated to change the situation, then determine if you have set S.M.A.R.T. goals - Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely or Tangible.

Were your goals specific, precise and attainable? Your goals should challenge your comfort level - stretch you. Now, commit to the process: burn your bridges behind you!!

Was your goal realistic? A goal needs to be relevant - relative to your current state. You also need to have a plan. Was your goal timely? You need to set a definitive time frame within which you'll accomplish your objective.

As you analyze your goals, you may discover that you didn't set SMART ones. No problem. Grasp this apparent failure as an opportunity to develop your goal setting skills. Take some quiet time and reflect on your goals. Pray or meditate. Ask God to guide you.

What are the best goals for you? What goals would facilitate achieving your bigger vision? Then make a list of your new S.M.A.R.T. goals. Read your goals at the beginning and end of every day. Visualize yourself achieving them.

What feelings will you experience when you attain this goal? How will your relationships change? What will your partner think as you achieve your goal? Your children? What other options will ultimately emerge?

For example, if you've set a financial goal, will you be able to travel more with your family? Would your children be able to go to private schools? How will you feel when you send your children to the school of your dreams? How will you feel when your children can attend the university of their choice?

Create affirmations that reinforce achieving your goals. If you've set a goal to walk three times a week, you could create an affirmation "I feel invigorated as I walk in my neighbourhood."

For example, if you've set a goal to buy a new Lexus by the end of the 2009, go to a Lexus dealer and sit in or test drive the model you plan to purchase. Absorb the feeling of owning a Lexus. Take a picture or video of yourself in the car. Put it on your vision board. Rehearse your goals experientially.

Thank God in advance for achieving your goal. Focus on reaching your goal, envision yourself achieving this goal. Talk positively with others about your goal.

Choose to have a different perspective about not reaching your initial goals. Instead embrace this opportunity to fine-tune your goal setting skills. Set and achieve S.M.A.R.T.er goals. Your dreams; the ultimate reality!

About the Author

Andrea Scott is a joyous online marketing entrepreneur who shows people how to create a successful internet business. To find out how to have an online business that generates a 6-figure income in your first year, go to => http://www.ubildwealth.com

Article Directory Source: http://www.articlerich.com/profile/Andrea-Scott/47808

Additional Articles From - Home | Self improvement | Goal setting