How to be the best bridesmaid. - By: silvercat2

Did you ever hear of the old cliché, “Opposites attract”?
This idea often plays true with good friends. While one friend may
like hot colors, the other may love bland colors. Mary may like short
dresses Ellen will like long dresses. Where friends are concerned
varying preferences are ok. More often, diversity creates more fun
relationships. Women usually have varying tastes in music, men, travel and clothes—speaking of clothing---what happens when your best
girlfriend - picks out a horrible looking bridesmaids dress? One thing is for sure, she
will compensate for the anguish with a loveable bridesmaids gift.

Many bridesmaids will be upset by their best friend’s
selection in bridal attire. Accepting an invitation to be a bridesmaid
is exciting. Having to wear an ugly dress can be a little more
difficult to accept. Many brides feel guilty when their bridesmaids are unhappy.
As a result, some brides try to make their bridesmaids happy through
extravagant bridesmaids gifts—even when they can’t really afford to.

There are varying opinions if bridesmaids should
voice what they don’t like to the bride. Many think that it is too upsetting to the bride
for bridesmaids to Object about their bridesmaid dresses or any other
aspect of the wedding.Most weddings will have four bridesmaids as an average. While deciding on a bridesmaids gift that they will
love is easy, it is not so simple to find a dress that willmake everyone happy.You may think that best friends
should keep their lines of communication open. Saying what they think
is every friend’s right.

Is having a bridesmaids dress that you dislike an appropriate cause to backout of your friend’s wedding? If you are willing to not participate in
your best friend’s wedding simply because of disliking the dress that
she chose, then you ask yourself how you would feel if you were her.
Don’t jepordize your relationship over something as trivial not liking a dress she wants you to wear. Bridesmaids are supposed to remove the bride’s
tension—not increase her tensions. The bridesmaids primary job is to support the bride.
This is why the bride invests so much thought in finding the right bridesmaids
gifts. This special gift allows her to demonstrate her recognition for all of the help,
aggravations that were endured, and financial sacrifices that were made by those who love her.

A wedding means so much and is a unique chance to help a friend and wearing an ugly dress
a a little while will not ruin a girl’s fashion reputation. Friends should do whatever is necessary to (support each other—even if it means
wearing undesirable bridal attire. This is why the bride asks
her closest friends. If she chose her acquaintances, they would
be less willing to wear a dress that does not satisfy their
expectations. They would not have the the relationship to make it worth the embarrassment,
their time, or even a special gift from the bride—That’s what separates
friends and acquaintances. Supporting the bride is a bridesmaid’s
primary task. Do’nt worry what the dress looks like.

About the Author

Michelle Lindsey writes for www.silverlandjewelry.com home of Bridesmaids Gifts and Bridal Jewelry

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