How to be nice - By: Corina

What if you decided to be nice to people today? Why not to try at least once to be nice to people? Most people are trying to be nice every day, because no one would want to be around you if you decided to be just yourself or be bad.
Some people so much got used to being nice that they beleive it's part of their character.
People aren't born being nice to everyone, we learned to be nice to people. For some people it's easier to be nice, for some it's harder, but overall, we all trying to be nice in some ways because we want to be liked and we want to be around other nice people.

Being nice can be hard or can be easy depends on type of your character, willingness to succeed and desire to be different. Some people think that being nice is weak and you just need to be yourself. Being nice is not weak, it just serves a good purpose to someone who believes being nice is a good thing and benefit others. If you are trying to be nice but hate others, what's good about it. Try to be nice only if you truly care about others and think it is for the better. Many people are nice to others only if they want to get something from someone. Is it good? It's still better than being bad. Whatever you do, it does affect other people to a certain degree. Try do that feels right for you, feels good for you and you will enjoy the experience and other people will be happy around you too.

Learn to smile to people, anyone you going to meet give them a nice smile, or say something nice. Even if people wouldn't express appreciation, beleive that what you did will benefit the other person. It's hard to be nice to people if you don't feel liked or appreciated. Change your believes and decide that anyone you meet loves you, it will make it easier to be nice people.

Ask others for their opinion. If you are trying too hard to be nice, some people wouldn't beleive and could think you want something from them. Ask your friend or relative to observe your interaction with other people and tell you if you are doing a good job or if you come across as a pervert. Being nice is good to a certain degree. Try to find a fine line between being nice or fake. No one likes fake people. Learn to be natural, the more you try, the more experience you have, the easier it will be next time for you.

If you don't know what else to do and how to seem nice, then try next tip. Stop being bad. Find out what qualities make you look bad to people and try to change them. Maybe you talk too loud and come across as an aggressive person.

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