How To Get Your Girlfriend Back - Breaking Up And Making Up - By: Tony Edwards

Losing your girlfriend can be extremely devastating. You finally find the one you love and then "BAM" she breaks up with you. What do you do? What do you say? How do you get her back without losing your self-confidence and self-respect?

While begging and pleading will not work, there are ways to get her back and get your life back on track. When you are in love and find that "special one", it is hard to even think straight when it all blows up. So how do you get her back?

First, let us identify how much of an impact the breakup had on you. Do you find yourself doing any of the following?

-Cannot turn on the radio because every song reminds you of her and makes you cry
-Have no appetite and cannot eat
-Get depressed and binge eat
-Call, email or text her several times per day
-Do not go out because you might miss her call
-Keep replaying the breakup to see what you did wrong
-Cannot go to some places because they were her special places
-Keep rehearsing what you need to say to get her back
-Have a tendency to want to spy on her

If any of these descriptions fit you, then maybe it is time to find a way to get her back.

Here are some tips to do it right:
Tip #1: Do not contact her too early or too much. It will be hard to do, but you should wait 30-60 days to contact her. Contacting her too early will make her feel that you are needy or desperate. Women do not want their man to be desperate; they want a strong man. As they say, time heals even though it is really hard to do.

Tip #2: Now that you have waited for a month, how do you contact her and what do you say? First when you contact her, do not be overbearing or pushy to meet. Do not invite her over to your house or ask her to go to dinner. Start slow and act okay with a "no" answer.

Ask her to go to get coffee at a neutral location to catch up. Do not bring up the past or start the blame game. Show her the "new" you. Be interesting and interested in her. Show no emotion or rage if she tells you something that upsets you. Keep it light and have fun conversation and then cut the date off...make her want more.

Tip #3: Be a little mysterious. Telling her exactly how you feel and fully exposing yourself can make her feel fully in control. Mystery can intrigue a woman. It will peak her curiosity and make her want to meet, talk and be around you more. Be the hunted, not the hunter.

Remember pleading and begging does not work. You must attract your girlfriend back and make her think that it is her idea to get back together. She will never be attracted to a needy, wimpy and whiny man. Be strong...the "one that can take care of me" type that she is looking for.

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