Get The Support You Need In A Divorce Recovery Group - By: Len Stauffenger

If you've read our other articles, you know our expert area is divorce. Only after you go through it, can you appreciate its challenges. You've got fear and self doubt to deal with. But ultimately good will accrue. It makes you feel good to come out the other side of that dark tunnel. The joy of fulfillment and 'just doing it' is phenom. And, I discovered my soul mate. My life is much better for it.

In the early days of divorce, you are frequently operating under the burden of overwhelm. It's difficult to make decisions. It's challenging to see what options might be available. You operate from a perspective of blame, because surely it was the other one's fault and not yours?It hard to get past your own concepts of failure and frustration.

You lock yourself in place and continue to your same M.O. because you don't want to confront or change how embarassed you are, how filled with guilt or shame. It isn't required for you to be alone. There is help via your computer.

What would we do without all the help on the internet. It's self-supporting to use the internet to help you get back to a sense of happiness again:

1. Find the sites dedicated to assisting divorcees and sign up, participate, share and learn.

2. Join an online divorce recovery group.

3. Read articles that pertain to the many challenges of divorce

You don't need to go it alone. You can find others out there who are walking in the same moccasins as you and who completely understand your problems. They might be a few steps down the path in front of you and their advice is pertinent, practical and timely. Or you might be a few steps down the path in front of someone else and you can pause in your life, turn back and offer your wisdom to them.

Do the research to find which websites provide the best information for you. Gather all the sites you find in your research in a Bookmarks Folder so you can retrieve them easily whenever you feel the need arising again.

Find places where you can read articles about divorce.

Try to find a group of divorcees where you feel comfortable and participate. At a minimum, you'll make new friends, and you'll glean many choice tidbits of how to resolve the challenging problems you are facing with help from those who are currently in or have experienced fear and self doubt via the same predicament as you. Who knows? Ultimate good could happen for you as it did for me. You could eventually find your soul mate, or create a new career in writing your advice into a book or articles as you gain strength in resolving your problems. Hang tough; help yourself. I know you can do it.

About the Author

In his book "Getting Over It: Wisdom for Divorced Parents," Len Stauffenger shares his simple wisdom gleaned from his divorce with his daughters and with you. Len is a Success Coach and an Attorney. You can purchase Len's book and it's accompanying workbook at http://www.wisdomfordivorcedparents.com

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