Get Her Back - Things To Do - By: Wesley Vaughn

Your asking yourself "How do I get her back?". Now, honestly admit how you've been acting, and I have a pretty good idea because I been there and made all the mistakes you are making right now. Would you dread being around you? Do you constantly "nag" at her about "why she is doing this to you?". Do you end every conversation in an argument, to the point now where she won't even respond to your calls, e-mails or texts? If it hasn't reached that point, let me tell you it soon will if you don't change your tactics. Let me give you some beginning tips in winning your ex back.

Don't Play Games -
This is important! Many of us guys fall into this trap during breakups because it gives us some sense of power or control. If we can just make her think we don't care, or perhaps care more than we really do - then we are manipulating them and it makes us feel better. But it never feels good for long. Soon we realize that lying and "playing" her isn't really such a good feeling. And many times drives her further away.

We play games by dating other women, or pretending to care for someone else. It's a lowly ploy to make her feel jealous. She could feel so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that she wants you back - for the wrong reason, and it won't last long. Or, she could decide that since you moved on so easily you must not have cared all that much. It usually backfires horribly and can cause the breakup to be permanent. It's a dangerous risk if you truly want her back. There are much better ways.

Don't Be Rude or Spiteful -
Many times the anger of rejection makes us act mean or spiteful. Don't shout and nag, avoid arguments. Don't belittle her with things like "You'll never find anyone as good as me". Work hard on controlling your emotions - Woman will always be drawn to a man with cool calm confidence. Have your past actions been those of a confident man?

From a standpoint of being in your shoes, the best advice I can give you is, avoid the things listed above at all costs. These are just the beginning steps - T 'Dub' Jackson gave me great advice in his program "The Magic of Making Up" and it worded great for us. I have lots of information about his program on my blog.

Another thing that helped me a great deal (not only in matters of love but in relationships of all kinds) is learning to communicate better. I have a great reference book on my website

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