Get Her Back - 3 Thoughtful Ideas - By: Wesley Vaughn

If you caused her any hurt during the relations, or even gone a little “postal” since the breakup a sincere and honest apology is needed. You know your girl better than I do, or at least you should? You can do the things that she really likes, but be prepared for her to reject them. Does she not answer her phone, does she not respond to text messages, does candy, cards and flowers end up in the trash?

This is to be expected at first. She's angry after all!

One thing that usually has a huge impact on women is simply a sincere and heartfelt handwritten letter. Yes, handwritten and delivered by snail mail. Yeah, it’s old-school, but you’ll be amazed at it’s results. Don’t try and be fancy with it, just keep it short, and above all - honest.

Try handpicked flowers, she knows how easy it is today to simply pick up the phone and order some flowers and a card. Women like a thoughtful man, and a handwritten note and handpicked flower show a little more thought than some "order-by-phone apology tactic", it looks a lot more sincere.

Did you spend your relationship doing thoughtful things like this, if so you need to continue doing them, continually improving - but don’t overdo it if these things seem to offend her. Learn balance.

Now, if you never showed much thoughtfulness in your relationship it is time to learn the skill of making your girl feel special, and realize how important this tactic is. Understand also that if you never did these things during the relationship, she will most likely be doubtful at first, just be patient and continue to work on it.

Do you know of something she has always wanted, it would be even better if it’s something she has wanted since she was a little girl. Perhaps it’s a special brand of figurines, maybe she has always wanted a porcelain doll. Whatever it is, get it for. She will not only appreciate the gift but she will also appreciate the thoughtful person you are...or are becoming.

Hopefully you haven’t pushed her to the point she smashes the porcelain doll. Yeah, that really happened to me once! Then you have more work to do, but you can learn - I did. Now, if she simply refuses the gift, tell her that’s fine you will just hang onto in case she changes her mind. Don’t get angry, don’t push or force.

Above all, do not appear desperate, needy or “clingy”. You have to appear thoughtful, but not weak and desperate. The first will gain her respect, the second will ruin her respect. You must balance things to appear genuine, not desperate. That’s the key.

These are just a couple of ways to get you thinking about to use a little romance, and thoughtfulness, to get your girl looking at you in a whole new way. And that is the very best way to entice her back.

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