Flirting and Dating the Logical Way! - By: Gary Ng

Flirting is often perceived to be an art that requires a vast experience of social interaction in order to succeed. But how true is this?

Or how about the saying that only those who possess the looks and charisma will go much more farther in the game of flirting (as what some would like to call it) as compared to those who do not?

Whether you choose to believe any of the myths or facts listed pertaining to flirting, one thing’s for sure as it has been constantly observed and proven by social scientists: is that flirting no doubt being perceived as an “art”, can (believe it or not) be deemed a scientific method that can be easily learnt!

What form of scientific method are we discussing here? The answer is the concept of proven logic. In every task we carry out in our daily lives, there is a certain order of “system”, “procedure”, and logical set of decisions we constantly make that have an effect in the overall outcome of our actions. For example, if you intend to visit the supermarket today to grab a long list of grocery items, and that you’re aware that you’ve only got less than 30 minutes to do so as you’ve got other chores to carry out, what would you do? Chances are you’ll likely prioritise your items and decide for yourself which item ought to come first. That in essence, is the basic law of logical decision making. It is straight forward and simple and should not be any more complicated than that.

Likewise, in the case of flirting, the case of logic can be applied as well. In essence, flirting is a critical component of the attraction process and can be defined as the process by which sexual tension is generated. As such, if there is no sexual tension during your interaction with the opposite sex, then common sense will tell you that there won’t be any attraction. And if there’s no attraction present, what do you get? That’s right, a case of just another plain “friendship”. If that’s all you need, then it’s fine. But, if you believe there should be more to it, then consider the following pointers.

Flirting need not be a “tough” game to play. And since it’s just a game (yes, no strings attached please), it should be fun, right? But if that’s the case, why are there still so many folks out there who constantly get it wrong day in and day out and end up feeling lousy about themselves?

To keep this article simple, flirting does not work for this specific group of people because of these four major mistakes: they make the whole process too obvious (and you bet it will scare the heck out of the opposite party); they aren’t obvious enough (not too much, but it shouldn’t be too little either); both parties tend to rely too much on words rather than actions (obvious ain’t it?); and, they take things too seriously (come on, it’s a game! Not a lifetime of commitment!).

Once again, the process of flirting relies on a set of basic logical actions to avoid the above mistakes. These actions are critical if one is truly serious about this whole flirting process. Think that flirting is just about being a “playboy” or a “playgirl”? Think again. Flirting is a game meant for the most sophisticated and intelligent human form which not only relies on social intelligence, skills, but above all, the ability to adopt to new challenges in today’s interaction field by relying on just a simple set of guidelines.

Still think you’re up to it?

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