Cell Phone Dating Services - 5 Intriguing Phone Chat Topics - By: Clint Knight

When exploring cell phone dating services, it is important to remember that different people will have different intentions and different expectations about where a relationship might go. Some people will use cell phone dating as a way to search for the perfect partner with whom to have a lasting relationship. Other people are looking for someone to hook up with, and have no further concerns about where any relationship that comes from it might go. Using the topics and tips in this article will allow you to find out what your potential date has in mind, without being too obvious about it.

When talking to someone from a cell phone dating service for the first time it is also very important to keep them engaged in conversation. It is difficult to maintain the proper balance between being boring and seeming nosy or overbearing. In other words, you don't want to leave a lot of air in the conversation, but you also don't want to appear desperate. The following topics can both give you something to keep the conversation going, as well as a few tricky ways to learn as much as possible about your potential date.

Music/Entertainment

Asking a person about music is a good way to learn about them and 'feel them out'. "What kind of music do you like?" may be a little cliche, but as long as you don't let a short answer suffice, you can learn a lot. Be ready to talk about whatever music they like, whether you like it or not. Depending on what you are looking for in a cell phone date, the music they listen to may not be important to you, but make sure you are not negative about the music a potential date likes. Ask if they like going to concerts. Music is a good ice breaker, so relate to whatever they say and use it as an opportunity to talk about yourself a little bit.

Personal Item

Another way to break the ice is to ask a person to name one personal item that they can see right now. This put some degree of pressure on the person to be interesting too. By asking for an item they can see, you force the person to pick something fast. Use the opportunity to learn about your date. Be prepared to ask follow up questions such as "What does the item mean to you?" Treat this as a game and keep in mind you will probably have to answer the same questions.

Food

You probably won't start many relationships by asking a woman how well she knows her way around a kitchen, but if you ask a potential date thoughtfully where they like to eat and if they enjoy cooking you can learn a lot about them. Someone who cooks for themselves a lot obviously has a kitchen. Someone who usually eats TV dinners probably lives alone. If a person lists several finer restaurants, they either have money to spend or are accustomed to having money spent on them. Learn what you can and be sure to tell your potential date what you like too.

Pets

Asking someone about pets is a good lead in to find out a lot of information about them. Asking detailed questions about a person's home and living arrangement may not be appropriate at first, however you can learn a lot by asking if they have pets. If someone tells you they have a dog or cat, you can ask if it is indoor or outdoor. An outdoor pet means a yard. Be prepared to ask questions like "does your dog tear things up when you are gone?" you can learn from the answers if the person has roommates, lives alone, or lives with their parents. What type of pet someone has can sometimes tell you a lot about that person's personality. People love their pets, and are often passionate about them. This makes pets a great topic to get someone to loosen up and really show you their personality.

Vacation/Travel

Asking a person if they like to travel is another great lead in. This opens both of you up to talk for hours about things you've done, places you've been, and places you'd like to go. You can also use context clues to figure out what kind of money the person makes, and whether previous trips have been with family, friends, or significant others.

These topics should help you to keep your first conversation going. You should also be able to lean a lot about the person you are talking to. Cell phone dating services can be a great way to meet someone, and hopefully these tips will help you to find what you are looking for.

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