500 Intimate Questions Review Michael Webb - By: Eddie

Michael Webb was kind enough to forward me a copy of his latest book 500 Intimate Questions For Couples. I was pretty excited to receive the email when it arrived as I thought it would be a fun thing for my wife and I to go through (you can see what happened with that here).

One of the first things that struck me about this is that to physically come up with 500 questions on any topic is a challenge in itself. How many questions could you come up with on a topic and how long would it take you to formulate all of these? I started to wonder if they are junk, filler or if genuinely thought out?

Moving through the questions it became apparent the amount and depth of thought that had actually gone into creating these 500 Intimate Questions. Firstly it covers romance and basic questions, then moving into more intimate and deeper areas. Just the structure of the questions alone was quite considered and necessary for the overall effect of the experience.

A Non Disclosure Agreement?

The seriousness and depth that you are likely to get into with these questions is outlined in the introduction when Michael Hall explains, you may need to get a non disclosure agreement because you will be bearing your soul, this is not for the faint hearted. This is for people who really want to get into the mind, body and soul of their partner and attempt to experience a different level of the physical, emotional and sexual relationship. Michael gives you the option to not answer a question but warns if it is overused, there may be something that you need to delve deeper into like.... 'Is this person really the one for you?'

The guide is set out to take you on a journey from lighter more relaxed intimate questions through to the more intense and explicit.

Warming Up

The first set of questions titled "Warming Up" were questions that many in a long term relationship will probably have chatted casually about over time. They were fun to answer and not too challenging. I imagine for a couple just getting to know each other they would be really exciting and there is the potential to feel an intense physical and emotional attraction early on after only a few questions.

I like the way the questions are asked in a really non judgemental and non leading way. Initially when going through the book I had strong reactions to some of the questions. I thought 'How strange that there could be anything but one answer to that question'. But soon realised, 'of course some people's answers to these would be completely different, and we wouldn't be compatible.' For example:

Question 13. Can two people in love live together without sleeping together?

I thought 'Why would you want to do that, you love each other, and live together but not sleep with each other?' I soon realised some people of certain beliefs live together without sex (you may be able to tell I am quite a physical person lol). For me this may sound the warning bells and things may cool off if the answer didn't go the direction I hoped it would.

The range of questions is diverse and has the potential to take you on a rollercoaster of a journey that is really aimed at uncovering many different aspects about the person you are romantically involved with. The questions cover sex, religion, racism, family history, divorce, marriage, lovemaking and physical attraction just to name a few. Obviously when discussing these things a whole range of emotions and states are created. One minute you may be ripping each others clothes off, the next you may be crying with laughter and later you may engaged in a deep conversation about race. It is a truly fascinating exercise to go through.

Honesty is Paramount

As the questions evolve into more romantic and erotic questions it becomes apparent the importance of answering these questions honestly. Purely honestly. These are questions that you are setting up your life around, they may not be asked again and the answers need to be honest. For example:

Question 188: "Can you kiss someone passionately without it leading to sex?"

This question determines so much about your physical activity with each other from the answer on. Do you want to be able to kiss passionately in public or is that something only for behind closed doors when lovemaking will take place? The answer to this can be very influential in your relationship. It is key to be honest.

Question 190: "Is there any part of your body that you would like your spouse to avoid touching"

The answer to this will play a big role in how they will touch you and where. Once again honesty is paramount.

And then there are the more challenging questions. Such as:

Question 194: "Is it OK for someone to be aroused by someone other than their spouse?"

This one will really test the relationship out. It brings together honesty and animal instincts and has the potential to bring such power into the relationship if answered with honesty and clarity.

And just when you thought that things couldn't get any more in-depth or steamer you reach the next segment of questions.

Worth the Wait

Starting with questions around virginity and moving onto "talking dirty" in the bedroom, and who prefers who to initiate sex. These questions start to get a little spicy. How course you can imagine how simply talking about these with one another in a safe and secure way has the huge potential for some serious lovemaking!

Questions For Couple in Long Term Relationships

The final set of questions are aimed at people that have been together for a while. These questions revolve around keeping the bedroom relationship alive and fresh. Satisfying. Exploring the world of enjoyment, satisfaction, boredom, variation, and habits. These questions really explore the importance of keeping the spice in the relationship as a boring routine is so easy to fall into:O shocking I know, but true.

The great thing about this book is that it sets up a comfortable environment to explore areas of your relationship that you may not be able to explore in any other way. For example bringing up 'boredom in the bedroom' can make a person feel very defensive if not done in the correct way. Michael Webb provides a framework for this and other such sensitive topics. Sex is one of the greatest gifts in the world and something that gives us the utmost pleasure. It is something that we should study and understand so that we truly get the most out of it.

I wasn't sure what to expect when I first saw the email with 500 Intimate Questions in it from Micheal but after reading through them I am genuinely excited to recommend it. It will be a truly mind blowing experience.

500 Questions Michael Webb Review

I would say that it is 'The Kama Sutra in Questions'. Some positions you will like, some will just be awkward and some you wish you never attempted. But at the end you will know a lot about the possibilities and limitations of your relationship, sexually, physically and emotionally.

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