3 Keys to Health and Healing in Your Marriage: Does Yours Have Them? - By: Eric Kuhl

Healthy habits for a healing marriage are hard to come by, unless both you and your partner are willing to work to see a peaceful marriage bear fruit. Does your marriage have the signs that it is or will become all that you want it to be? Read on to find out.

Do you have a future together? You may be considering moving on in your relationship and calling it quits. If you're relatively sure that the grass is greener on the other side of the hill, you may be in for a big surprise. Second and third marriages are even more likely to end in divorce. Why? You'll be bringing your same issues into those new relationships and encounter similar frustrations. Perhaps you think you can do better with someone else. Reality says that may not be the case. This is the first sign that your marriage will last; you see a bright future together.

The next thing to look at is your personal attitude. If you think you guys will make it and are determined to make it happen, great. That’s a start. If one or both of you are so bitter or angry, and unwilling to go to counseling, much less get back together, it's not going to work, regardless of how much the other wants it. Do you really want your marriage to heal and are you committed to getting back to the loving part of your relationship? If you are, there's a good chance it will happen.

Your final sign that your marriage is becoming healthy and heading toward healing is what your outlook on your marriage is. What is it? It has to deal with whether you've accepted responsibility for your part – good or bad – in your relationship.
Since it takes two to tango (or have a relationship to begin with), obviously both partners played a part in making your marriage dysfunctional. The question is: do you blame your spouse for all or most things, or do you see where you've hurt them and can improve in the future? Playing the blame game is no fun, because it won't get you anywhere.

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